Writing a positive and enjoyable story, whether fiction or non-fiction, is hard when we're in a "blue funk." Sadness comes to us all, in one form or another, sometimes in short duration and sometimes for a season. As Shakespeare wrote in Hamlet, "When sorrows come, they come not single spies, but in battalions." Don't we all feel like that sometimes? As if we're weighed down with one problem or crisis after another?
Often sadness forms like an odious vapor from within our souls. Then again, it may rain on us from outside sources. Either way, we are affected and sometimes unable to write.
Our creativity becomes a prisoner, encased within the bubble of these morose, unhappy or depressing emotions.
Or is it?
Many songs have been written as a result of a catastrophe in the song writer's life. A lost life of someone held dear or the loss of a love. "Tears in Heaven," for example is a grief-spurred ballad written by Eric Clapton after losing his 4-year-old son, who died upon falling from an apartment window.
Pain can immobilize us or make us sound out, either with music or poetry or prose.
Depression can pull us down into a numbing abyss. Or we can fight like hell to rise above. Either way--succumbing or surviving--is never easy. Both can zap our energies. Both can take a chunk of our souls. However, surviving leads us to the emotional sunlight of healing. And so we keep fighting.
Perhaps we can keep writing, too. Oh, not our current WIP's perhaps, but we can write down our emotions with all it's vivid blues and swirling grays. We can fill the blank computer screen or pristine journals with our disjointed emotional thoughts. A stanza of poetry might surprise us. Or a magazine article. One thing for sure, by writing down our emotions, we create a well of resouce for ourselves.
If I put down my feelings of dispair over a health issue, perhaps. Then one day, months later, when my character is facing something incredibly scary, I can go back to my "Blues File" and pull forth an emotion my character needs.
In otherwords, use your negative emotions for good. Don't deny them, but feel them, taste them, smell them. Allow them to roll around on your hands as you examine them. Paint them honestly on a computer screen or canvas. For one day, they may become something profound on a page. Something that resounds with someone else. Someone who needs a touch of positive reinforcement.



14 comments:
Thank you, Vonnie, for your inspiring blog.
You're quite welcome, Ashantay.
Sure got enough stored up to use!
Interesting Vonnie!
Truer words were never spoken, Vonnie. And you framed them so eloquently.
Mary, I think my idea works on the same principal as running away from werewolves. I don't know the fear I'd feel if I was running from one. But I DO know the fear of running from a swarm of angry bees. So I take that fear, magnify it, and write my scene.
Thanks, Mac. We all have pain of one kind or another. Why not drawl on it when we need emotion in our scenes?
Hi Vonnie,
Using negative emotions for good, is sound advice. You know, I always write my best work when I am feeling sad. When I am struggling on a WIP I sometimes listen to a sad song to put me back in the mood.
Regards
Margaret
Sad songs. Good idea, Margaret! Thanks for commenting.
"Songs Sung Blue, everybody knows one..." One of those songs about sad that somehow makes you feel good. What you have said is so very true Vonnie, for every body in the world. I have struggled with depression many times in the past and find myself slipping back every so often. Next time maybe I will jot down what ever I'm feeling and maybe I can unleash the stories I want to tell. Some of them are sad. But most of them are more about hope and overcoming. Thanks for a great post!
Depression hits almost all of us. For some it's a short-time visitor, for others it's a long-term tenant. I've certainly had my battles. The depth of emotion with which we feel or don't feel things can enrich our writing if we allow it.
Thanks, Vonnie. I needed that.
Beautiful, Vonnie--I'm a fortunate one, as I'm rarely depressed. And when I am, it takes me a while to figure out why I don't feel well. I think I'm sick, but I'm not...just depressed. I do know people who seem to spend much of their time depressed--and it's depressing. Thanks.
Reading this a day late, Vonnie, but I am feeling a bit blue today, because I found out this morning that one of my dog, Chase's, doggie friends had to be put down this weekend. Butch was only three, but had been sick. We saw him on Friday and he seemed a bit lethargic. I know how much his owner didn't want to do this. He'd just put down his older dog last winter, so I'm feeling bad for him.
But since I'm working on contracted edits, it really won't carry over into my writing.
In truth, it's hard to get through even a few days without something happening that makes you sad. When you can do nothing about it, you just have to let it go.
Good post. Perhaps the most difficult thing to deal with is depression/head fuzzies due to medication. Sometimes we just have to deal...
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